HXP - Cebu, Philippines (Part 1)

(published 3/26/24)

I got an entire two and a half weeks with Cat! We began our adventure by flying out of SLC on July Fourth, met up with our group in LAX, then all flew together to Taipei, then Cebu, Philippines.

Cat had been planning the trip for about a year and a half. HXP (abbreviation for "Humanitarian Experience") is an LDS-affiliated group that has organized trips for youth to dozens of locations in the US and abroad. Each itinerary includes a significant amount of time dedicated to humanitarian projects benefitting the community, but the youth also have opportunities to connect and bond by enjoying local adventures. There is also a strong faith-building component with group devotionals every morning and night, attending Church and activities with local wards, and a temple trip.

It was so much more than I expected. Truly an incredible experience. It was hard for me to be "on" for two and a half weeks, and try to connect with the youth, and document the entire experience for everyone by taking pictures and posting on Instagram. (That last task was a big part of my job since the youth hand over their phones at the beginning of the trip and Instagram is the only way their family at home knows what they're up to and that they're okay.) BUT I'm so glad I could be there with Cat so that I could experience it all with her and truly understand it.

We arrived in the afternoon and drove straight from the airport to the ferry station.
We took a ferry to Bohol for a weekend of getting to know each other and adventuring.
We spent the first evening at the beach, eating a yummy dinner and just hanging out.

The next morning we went on the excursion that made Cat choose this
location over all the other amazing HXP trips: snorkeling with Whale Sharks!

We took small boats from the beach out maybe 100 yards to floating
platforms where locals were flinging out fish and a few whale sharks
were enjoying a free breakfast at each platform. It was so cool.

After that we had lunch on a boat that looked like a turtle!

We cruised down a scenic river and stopped for a photo op with an indigenous tribe.

And then we tried tinikling for the first time!
It's harder than it looks.

In the afternoon we had a river paddle boarding adventure, with
lots of acrobatics and antics from the youth. It was beautiful and so fun.

The next day we saw the Chocolate Hills.

And walked through a tarsier sanctuary.

We left Bohol for our home base in Cebu on Saturday night.
On Sunday we went to Church, then did ministering visits in the afternoon.

On Sunday evening we decorated our hard hats so we would be
ready for the jobsite in the morning.

Hype to get started! Over the course of the trip we worked at three
different schools in Cebu, building nutrition centers where undernourished
children will get free healthy meals during the school day.

We had a fun FHE activity with the ward on Monday night,
with a devotional taught by Cat and Logan, then games.

There were school children around during the work day, and Cat and the
other youth made some friends, and sometimes the kids even painted with us.

We had SO MUCH RAIN and "Filipinos don't work in the rain," so we didn't
get nearly as much work done as we would have if it'd been sunny. But it was fun.

We had dedicated cooks who brought us a hot lunch every day,
which we ate in an empty classroom at the school.

There were lots of water fights...

Driving back to the home base after a downpour.

Without their phones, the youth had fun hanging out together whenever we
had down time at the house. We spent a lot of time playing card games,
playing basketball, doing hair, and singing/playing guitar.

We visited the local mall and had fun finding souvenirs
(and haggling) in the lower level permanent "market."

Treats at the jobsite! No complaints.

Building up the cinder block walls meant mixing a lot of concrete by hand.

...to be continued in Part 2...

July 4th + Cat's Birthday

(published 3/20/24)

July Fourth was awesome. We all got up early for the Freedom Run in Provo. Andy and Sawyer met us in the BYU Stadium parking lot, and we all walked to the different race starts. Ben took all the younger kids to the 1 mile start, but the walk was farther than we realized and we had gotten a late start, so he sent Jack and Liza ahead on their own. Andy, Cat, and I walked to the 5k start by Brick Oven Pizza.

Ready for a day of fun.


It was fun to see the hot air balloons in the distance while we walked to our start.


It's such a fun atmosphere, between the costumes and the music
and people lining the race course, saving their seats for the parade.

It took a while for Jack and Liza to find the start, but once they began their
1 mile race, they stayed together and finished in less than 10 minutes.

We stayed together for the 5k until Cat decided to sprint to the finish.
Andy and I were fine with letting her go. We all finished in less than 33 minutes.

Finishers!

Finishers + Support Crew


We walked back to our cars and said goodybe to Andy and Sawyer, then our car drove to Chick-fil-A for breakfast and brought it back home to eat. We showered and did some early birthday prep - I put up decorations and did some wrapping while Cat assembled her cake.

Cat started opening presents at about 10:30am, followed by birthday cake, then we all hurried to leave because Jack was supposed to start a shift at the movie theater at 11.








Cat and I gave Jack hugs when we dropped him off, since we wouldn't be seeing him again until after our trip to the Philippines. Then the rest of us finished celebrating Cat's early birthday by hanging out at TopGolf (adjacent to Jack's movie theater).

TopGolf was so fun! We mostly played the Angry Birds game and enjoyed the yummy food. Cat even got a special dessert on a giant platter.








Back at home, Cat and I frantically finished packing (mostly me I guess) so we could get to the airport on time. Ben dropped us off at SLC and we met up with the rest of our Philippines group at LAX that evening.





While Cat and I were traveling, Ben took the kids down to Andy's house for some more Fourth of July fun!




Cat and I were queued up to get on our second plane at midnight, so I pulled out the Birthday Girl tiara and sash I'd brought for Cat and I was so excited when she actually wore them! It was fun for the flight attendants and others to wish her happy birthday and give her a little extra attention. It helped to make up for the fact that she literally had the shortest birthday ever. We flew west from Los Angeles to our connection in Taipei, crossing the international date line, so by my calculations, Cat's 18th birthday lasted about 7 or 7.5 hours. But it was certainly memorable!

June Miscellany

(published 1/30/24)

Did you know that Luke is obsessed with stuffed animals?
But even he thought the $140 price tag was too much for this crane.

When the promise of screen time isn't enough to motivate Luke to practice piano,
I resort to consequences. For a while, that meant sitting quietly by himself. But when
that wasn't enough, I changed tactics and had him write sentences. He wrote a lot of
sentences over the summer.

Baptisms at the Provo City Center with this handsome fella.


The Battle of the Basement

Lindon Pool with Luke's best buddy

We got a doorbell camera.

Banana Pudding!

Why are thrift stores so much fun??

While I was still in Mexico City, Ben repeated the
Johnson Hole hike with the kids, plus Andy and Sawyer.

Looks like a beautiful day!
I was more than ready for a hike in the mountains when I got home from Mexico.

And it was that much better because Cat joined me!

Sharing surprises from Mexico... I expected the kids' size mask
to fit Luke better than it did. Oops!

It was fun finding candies and cookies with different
flavors and textures to bring home.

I love that she's wearing her Xanadu shirt in this picture.

Unfortunately, I was just guessing at how to tie the knots for this hammock.
And... I was wrong. Not too long after taking this picture, the hammock fell. With Jack in it.

There was a lot of grumbling about having to go to the Saratoga Springs Temple open
house. But once we got over that, it was a really beautiful experience, in a really
beautiful place. I love getting to see the different temples being built around us!




The Broadway Tour of Les Miserables at the Eccles in SLC.
It was wonderful, and I am so glad we all saw it together.

Luke wanted to make paper masks, so I got out the elastic I'd bought
to make fabric masks during Covid. All he had to do was untangle it...

Cat and I went for a jog on the Murdock Canal Trail and passed the
Lindon Temple. So cool! (Cat had more fun than this picture depicts.)

Liza's good friend breeds puppies and had a new litter in June.
Here's Liza with Boone, the runt of the Bernadoodle litter.
It's hard to believe how tiny he is!