Our New Year's Celebration

We had a really fun time celebrating New Year's.  The main event was a cousin celebration that included dinner and festive desserts, courtesy of Lindsey, fun and games and play time, and a countdown with balloon drop.  We had decorations (which my kids put up by themselves while I cooked and prepped - Cat even assembled the balloon drop) and noise makers and Mardi Gras beads and headbands and so much sparkling cider, wich Cat acting as bartender.  It was wonderful.









  




Once the cousins left, we had the kids put on pajamas in preparation for a movie before real midnight.  It's the first time we let the kids stay up to celebrate actual New Year's and they did great!  Luke was the most tired, but we managed to ring in the New Year together.  They chose to watch Disney's "Descendants" (I was hoping for "The Greatest Showman," since that movie and soundtrack played such a big part in our year in 2018 but I was outvoted).  We weren't finished with the movie when midnight came, so we paused it, watched the ball drop (2 hours later than it actually had), lit sparklers and did our "fill it up" tradition (which Ben insists is ridiculous) in the back yard, drank bubbly, took a few more pictures, then finished the movie before crawling into bed around 1:00.






Happy New Year!

President Nelson's Book of Mormon Challenge


My girls and I were watching the General Women's Session on my bed Saturday, October 6th, 2018 when President Nelson issued four challenges to the girls over 8 and women of the Church, one of which was to read the entire Book of Mormon by the end of the year.  I felt like our days were full enough and knew it would truly be a challenge to accomplish that task, but I also knew that if the Prophet had asked me to move my family to Darkest Peru (I don't know why a Paddington Bear reference is coming to mind as I'm writing this, but I'm going with it) then I would do it.  So why wouldn't I make the time to read this book?

I decided that I wanted to do my best to help the girls complete the challenge too, so we started the following week getting up extra-early before school started, usually around 6:00, so that we could have 20-30 minutes to read before going about our daily routine.  In order to add an element of fun to this ritual, I made hot drinks every morning.  Eliza always wanted hot chocolate but Cat usually chose herbal tea.

I figured if we read about 7 pages a day, which seemed manageable, we'd be sure to finish even if we missed a few days.  So we started.  But it was slow-going.  We tried taking turns reading but soon discovered we covered a lot more material if I just read the whole time.  All of the marking Pres. Nelson asked us to do, underlining or bracketing references to Jesus Christ, took additional time too.  Sometimes it took one of us a little longer to get out of bed.  And then we'd take a break when someone needed to use the bathroom.  And so on.  We got farther and farther behind and I tried not to be frustrated that I could have read faster on my own, but continued on reading with the girls.  We intended to make up for lost pages by reading extra on the weekends or while in the car driving to and from California for Thanksgiving, but those things didn't help us gain extra ground.

So though we chiseled away at it for a couple of months, we efinally decided to read separately for the last month or so.  I felt like trying to do it with the girls might keep me from finishing on my own (though I suppose I could have read on my own simultaneously) and they thought they'd be able to read faster on their own too.  I decided that they're old enough to be accountable, so why not give them the chance.

As the end of the year approached, it seemed we were all close enough to accomplish the goal, and I thought a little extra incentive/reward was in order.  So I told the girls that whoever finished before New Year's would get a smoothie from Jamba Juice (which they both LOVE).  Well, I ended up being the last one to finish, reading the last few pages of the BoM on the evening of New Year's Eve.


And Cat and Eliza thoroughly enjoyed their smoothies.

But more importantly, we enjoyed the experience.  I kept thinking back to the challenge President Hinckley issued to complete the Book of Mormon in a matter of months back in 2005.  I remember distinctly doing most of my reading while nursing a special baby girl named Cat as I sat on our blue couch, in our little house in Florida.  I was glad I could share the experience with her again, in a different way this time.

I usually read the Book of Mormon rather slowly - about once through each year - which is great for digesting small bits at a time.  But I really appreciated reading it quickly because it helped me appreciate more of the recurring themes and get a broader, more comprehensive perspective.  Marking the passages referring to and about Jesus Christ was eye-opening.  The book truly is a testament of Him!  He's everywhere!  It contains such varied and beautiful teachings and truths and I truly gained a stronger testimony through this process.  I was buoyed by the experiences of other women completing the challenge too.  What a wonderful opportunity.

When I asked Eliza about her experience, the first things she said were that it was fun and nice, then she told me that she thinks it's cool that she can say she read the whole Book of Mormon last year, and that she felt peaceful when reading.

And Cat had this to say... When I finished it it was so amazing seeing/reading the BoM from a different perspective. I loved it and it was so nice to be able to see how many times my Savior was referenced in the book. It really is a truth to me that he leads this curch, and that was apparent through the reading that I was doing when I marked it. I will say, I felt extremely relieved and satisfied with myself after I finished on December 31st. But also as I finished, I had this very strong thought and feeling that what I had done was the right thing. Heavenly Father was proud of me and I was doing what I needed to do to prepare for the coming of his son. I know the church is true and I testify that I have read and KNOW that the Book of Mormon is true. I have found it out for myself. If you find your testimony wavering, are having a bad day, or don't have a testimony yet, I invite you to re-read the book. Open it to a random page and just read for a bit. I promise that if you read the BoM every day, it will improve your life, strengthen your testimony, and you will be able to see God's hand in your life more.


Below is an excerpt from President Nelson's message of gratitude.  I was one of the 10,000 responses he received.  I sure do love and sustain President Nelson as a Prophet of God.

My dear and precious sisters, four months have now passed since I extended my invitation to you to help gather scattered Israel. Do you recall how I told you that gathering Israel is “the greatest challenge, the greatest cause, and the greatest work on earth today”? Many of you have seized this challenge with great vigor. I wish to tell you that the Lord loves you and is pleased with every effort you make.

Since last October, I have heard from women all over the world about how they have responded to my four invitations to help gather scattered Israel. You will remember that the four invitations included:
  1. Participate in a 10-day fast from social media and any other media that bring negative and impure thoughts to your mind.
  2. Read the Book of Mormon by the end of 2018.
  3. Establish a pattern of regular temple attendance.
  4. Participate fully in Relief Society.
If you participated in any of these challenges, I want you to know that you are helping to gather scattered Israel. No matter how much time you spend on them, please know that the Lord is mindful and pleased with every effort you make.

On my Instagram and Facebook accounts, I asked to hear about your experiences. I was overwhelmed to see that more than 10,000 women responded! My heart was touched by what you shared. As we shift to a more home-centered, Church-supported curriculum, please remember that we need you. You are a key to the success of this new, balanced, and coordinated gospel-teaching effort.

Sisters, I love you and thank you. As a result of your efforts, I promise that the heavens will open for you. The Lord will bless you with increased inspiration and revelation. Together we can do all that our Heavenly Father needs us to do to prepare the world for the Second Coming of His Beloved Son.

Cat Playing Futsal

Cat's futsal season was November - January and she had a great time.  Her soccer team was divided up into two futsal teams and the only game that either team didn't win was when they played each other, and they tied.  Cat scored tons of goals and was probably the highest scorer on her team, but mostly she had a lot of fun and appreciated the opportunity to keep up her soccer skills during the off-season.




(I failed to take any actual pictures of Cat's games so the below pics are
screen shots from videos, and therefore the quality is terrible.  Sorry.)







Christmas Break Forced Family Fun

The last Saturday in December we began working on what I hope will become a weekly habit: spending time working as a family (which will usually be cleaning the house, but as it gets warmer we'll probably do more yardwork too) and playing as a family.  We did a little work that morning, then left for a fun outing to the Clark Planetarium in Salt Lake, then came home and finished our work.

The planetarium was really cool.  The main purpose of the trip was to use passes we had to see an IMAX show and a Dome show.  The 3D IMAX show was about life on the international space station, and the dome show was about asteroids.  We left between the shows and walked to a lunch place in the Gateway, which was cold but fun.  The kids had a lot of fun with all of the interactive exhibits at the planetarium and were mad when we had to leave before they had their fill.  We'll have to go back when we can just play some more.







  




We took advantage of our last day of the holiday season (New Year's Day) by going to the Provo Rec Center to swim at the cool indoor pool there.  I tend to freeze in indoor pools and managed to operate as a supervisor and photographer during the adventure, though I was in a suit just in case I needed to go in.  The kids had a great time, and enjoyed it even more when some friends of ours arrived and they had more kids to play with.





 

 


Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, and Beyond

We had our customary Bethlehem Dinner on Christmas Eve, this time adding a delicious Mediterranean chicken dish that really helped make it a more substantial meal.  Then we read the Christmas story and the kids opened presents from each other.  The best was Luke's gift to Cat: a set of fake eyelashes.  For weeks leading up to Christmas, he'd told me that "Cat would love those" whenever we walked by a display in the store.  It was a fun surprise!






Jack had been talking for a while about staying up to see Santa, and even setting a trap as you would for a leprechaun.  Luckily, I convinced him not to do any of those things and the kids slept really well.  Until about 5am.  We were cruel and made them wait until 7:00 to go downstairs to begin the festivities.




There were lots of wonderful presents Christmas morning, making for a fun morning of opening, and lots of play time afterward.








Our gift to the kids was a trip to San Diego over a long weekend in January.  We gave them packages with different clues, and Cat was really excited when she finally knew where we were going... until she found out that she'd have to miss two days of school.  (Luckily, she got over it.)




Christmas Fun:
  
 




After being in the house literally all day, I forced the kids to get outside for a little while.  They weren't happy with me, but Suz helped liven things up with a moving target game, then we played Sardines.




And finally, it was time for a simple yet delicious Christmas dinner, followed up by one of Suz's signature fancy desserts.  Mmmm.



Enjoying Christmas Presents the following day:

Notice Eliza's footwear.

Eliza and Jack both got new Pokemon cards for Christmas.
Jack also had a lot of fun with the Polar Express train Santa brought him.

I love my new record player, and listening to the records
I wouldn't let my parents throw away 20(+?) years ago.

Jack might have been slightly hypnotized by it.

Storm Trooper & Darth Vader Grilled Cheese